In “Perks of Being a Wallflower,” one of Charlie’s constant ideas is making other people happy before himself. This concept really strikes a chord with me because I relate so well to it. Just like Charlie, I am always a people pleaser before I worry about what makes me happiest.
I see Charlie get in many situations that I have seen myself in where everyone around him is happy, just as Charlie and I would wish for, however we are not as excited or satisfied as those around us. There are many references to Charlie helping the one he has feelings for end up with another guy. I know the feeling all too well of wanting the one I like to be happy before even considering that they should be with me.
Throughout the book, I see how this affects Charlie, both positively and negatively. Positively because he is praised for being such a selfless soul, but also negatively because of the internal damage and stress it adds for him, both emotionally and mentally. This to me is something I know all too well, and I think because I find familiarity in that part of PBW, it is why I always go back to this book when I’m looking for an interesting read.
- Emily Schulz -
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